Accessing or demanding access to devices, accounts, and passwords

Definition

Demands for passwords, evidence of having read private communications, installation or reference to tracking tools, or control over devices and accounts that enable ongoing visibility.

How it operates

Quoting private messages, demanding shared location permanently, requiring passwords or account access, installing or referencing spyware or monitoring software, and controlling shared cloud or family accounts that persist after separation.

Function

Eliminate private channels of communication and information so that the target's digital life remains open to the abuser.

Harm

The loss of private space; the target cannot communicate, seek information, or store personal material without the possibility of inspection.

Why this is coercive control

Mutually agreed shared family accounts absent coercion or punitive enforcement. The conduct here eliminates private channels of communication and information so that the target's digital life remains open to the abuser.

Constructed example

“I read your messages with Priya last night. Interesting how you talk about me. We'll discuss it when you're home.”

Fictitious. Written to illustrate the behavior. Not a case.